Pretty much everyone knows the legend of Diamond Shoals and Cape Hatteras.  Every year a few boats sink rounding this famous little point of land and 95% of the time my Mom asks me if I heard about the latest tragedy.  In a world where every square meter of land and sea is meticulously mapped, the Shoals appear on the map in a kind of “Here there be dragons” way.  No government agency maps it because it literally shifts with each wave, building and receding seemingly at random.  The shoals really want to extend offshore further, but they run into the mighty Gulf Stream which draws a line that they cannot pass as any sand that ventures too close gets swept away.  Unfortunately, the Gulf Stream runs into the wrong direction and moves nearly as fast as poor Dragonfly can travel, so traveling in the stream is not an option unless we enjoy standing still. Pretty much everywhere on the globe has these little numbers indicating the depth of the ocea...

    You may not know this if you somehow have only followed our journey via the blog because we are somewhat lazy at keeping it current (I’ve made a vow to do better which should last at least a few months), but three of the four previous years we have gone south to the Bahamas for the winter season and returned around July.  In the past, we have always just got someone to stay at our house and watch the cats for us.  This year we are returning to the boat about the same time as ever and making the same initial journey, but everything feels different.  Everything is different.    This year, we don’t plan to return home when the winter sailing season is over and hurricanes start to roll into the picture.  Making that decision created a cascade of difficult changes that included selling virtually all of our possessions barring those that fit onto the boat and a small handful of things that have sentimental value which we are stuffing in a storage u...

Last month, we had the pleasure of welcoming my two favorite aunts, Laurie and Liz, aboard Dragonfly . Family visits are always special, but there's something uniquely grounding about sharing time on the water with people who’ve known you forever. As we prepped for the trip, the weather seemed determined to test our patience. But sailors learn early on—life’s best moments often happen between raindrops. We set sail through a misty morning, navigating toward the Tide’s Inn. It’s not far, but this time we faced a new challenge: the bridge. You know, that bridge. The kind of structure that looms ahead, and no matter how many measurements or reassurances you get, there’s always that brief, heart-stopping moment when you wonder if you’ll make it through. Spoiler alert: the mast is still standing, and my nerves are mostly intact. After the bridge victory, we docked at Tide’s Inn, a place where the land itself seems to breathe with life. Laurie, Liz, Mike, and I took a walk along the In...

As the months begin to bear the weight of the letter r , the world seems to collectively shift its attention. For some, it’s back to school—a return to classrooms, lunchboxes, and the click-clack of chalk on a board. For us, it’s a different kind of schooling. One without walls, where the lessons come from the wind, the water, and the stubborn demands of a sailboat named Dragonfly . Cruisers go to school too, but ours is on the Chesapeake, where summer’s relentless heat finally loosens its grip. It's a strange kind of relief—like peeling off a sweat-drenched shirt after a long August day, replaced with the first crisp breaths of fall. The air turns cooler, clearer. You can feel the change in your lungs before you even hit the water. But before we point the bow south, there's some studying to be done. This month, it’s the SSCA GAM —learning, prepping, gathering tricks of the trade. October brings us back to one of our favorite playgrounds: Annapolis. The Sailboat Show. Cruisers ...

After dropping off the Goldens at the airport in Staniel Cay, we headed just a little bit south to Black Point Settlement on Great Guana Cay.  Great Guana Cay feels like a true "family island"--the kind where you get to become a temporary local.  In fact many of the workers at tourist-centric Staniel live in Black Point and commute early each morning by boat.  There are far fewer cruisers anchored here and the friendly locals have not become tired of us yet.   The local laundromat has a couple of bikes you can rent and tool around the island.  We did so and then hiked out to the first of two local attractions:  The blow hole. The second local attraction is a driftwood sculpture garden. But the main attraction in town is Lorrain's Cafe - which has wifi, good food and drinks.  All the cuisers would come over in the morning to work on their computers and then take a break when Lorraine opened for lunch. They also had a number of very helpful "staff" to as...

      At this point, we had pretty much exhausted the attractions in the immediate vicinity of Staniel Cay and decided to take advantage of the favorable winds from the south to run up to Wardrick Wells in the Exuma Land and Sea Park.  We've contributed some cash to the park so that we get priority access to the best mooring fields and can make reservations in advance.  However, this relies on them actually reading their email and putting us on the list.  They responded to my third follow-up email the day before and said they had just received it and that they would have to put us on a waiting list.  We didn't get the spot in the north field that I was hoping for, so we had to settle for the Emerald Rock field.  They had plenty of space and we did have a really nice sail.  It was downwind and smooth and I don't think the boys spent more than a few minutes outside the salon.  I was a bit concerned that the trip back was going to...

     Finally, the long awaited arrival of the Golden clan!  Lisa and I made Dragonfly as clean and welcoming as we were able and got up nice and early to bring a bag of trash ashore and pick up our 6 seat golf cart to transport the crew around the island.  We were a bit early, so we decided to get breakfast and wait until we needed to head to the airport to pick them up.  There was a brief moment of panic when I got a text from Karen saying they were ahead of schedule and I thought they had already landed.  Of course, breakfast was being delivered at the leisurely pace that most all services are performed in the Bahamas and I thought we were off to a very poor start indeed.  It turned out that she was texting me from an intermediate stop on another island.  We ended up having time to eat our breakfast slowly and still beat them to the airport.  They arrived safe and sound, if a bit worn out from the brutal schedule where they must h...